Merry Christmas and happy birthday!
Like one of our children, my Gx3 Grandmother, Maartje Mettes, was a Christmas baby. I can’t say how significant that was to Maartje or her family. My understanding is that in the Netherlands, historically, greater emphasis was placed on the religious aspect of Christmas. Maartje’s family was Roman Catholic, so it was more likely they had a nativity scene on display than a Christmas tree. As well, there is also the related celebration of Sinterklaas on December 6, which involves greater emphasis on the gift giving and festive nature of celebration. However, I don’t think Sinterklaas was as significant during Maartje’s childhood as it was later in the 19th century, or celebrated in the same way.
Maartje lived most of her life in small towns in Noord Holland, where she raised two families and experienced multiple relocations.
I do not have much information about Maartje’s childhood or early years, but by 1841 she was working as a domestic servant in Hensbroek. That same year, on April 29, she married Klaas Buur, a domestic servant from nearby Heerhugowaard. Klaas was born around 1814 in Oude Niedorp. At the time of their marriage, Klaas was working as a labourer in Hensbroek, an occupation he carried out until his death on May 8, 1847.
Maartje and Klaas’s short six-year marriage was marked by both joy and sorrow. Their first son, Pieter, was born in April 1842 in Heerhugowaard but died just two months later. A second son, also named Pieter, followed in 1843 and survived. A third son, Jan was born in 1844. A daughter, Pietertje, came in 1846 but died before her first birthday. With Klaas’s early death at age 33, Maartje was left a widow at age 29 with two young sons.
After four years on her own, Maartje married again. On May 2, 1851, she wed Cornelis Komen in Heerhugowaard. Cornelis, born in 1812 in Zuid-Scharwoude, had worked as both a farmer and a labourer, moving from Oterleek to Heerhugowaard and later Zuid-Scharwoude. Together, Maartje and Cornelis made a home that would remain steady for decades.
Some interesting trivia: when Maartje married Cornelis, she also had a brother-in-law named Cornelis Komen through her older sister, Neeltje Mettes. The two Cornelises were first cousins once removed. It appears Neeltje’s husband went by “Crelis”, a diminutive of Cornelis that was less common than the more frequently seen “Kees”.
Maartje and Cornelis had two sons, my Gx2 Grandfather Nicolaas (“Klaas”) in 1852 and Adrianus (“Arie”) in 1853. Both Klaas and Arie lived long lives, into their mid-70s. By 1854, the family was living at House 149 in the hamlet of Pannekeet, adjacent to Langedijk. They later moved to Zuid-Scharwoude in Langedijk, and eventually back to Heerhugowaard in the final years of their lives. Of course, in addition to Klaas and Arie, Maartje’s sons from her first marriage lived with the family until their adulthood. It is likely that Klaas’s son, Jan, from his first marriage, was living with the family for some period of time. As well, in the 1890s, Maartje’s teenage granddaughter, Maartje Buur, was living with Maartje and Klaas.
Cornelis died in 1893 at age 81. Maartje outlived him by three years, passing away in Heerhugowaard on June 15, 1896, at the age of 78. Maartje’s death registration is not entirely accurate, likely because the declarants were neighbours rather than family members. Among other things, her age at death was listed as 80, and the identities of her parents were unknown.
A Deck of Ancestors 